It is possible to use The Law of Attraction that you found in the secret pdf to attract a specific person, but it does take quite a bit of effort. The most important thing to do is to start cultivating feelings of love for yourself. This is how you activate the love vibrations around you…once you do this you will start to attract circumstances of love. Once you have the “hang” of that, you can start to work on attracting a specific person. If you don’t establish strong bonds of loving-kindness towards yourself, any effort you make to attract someone else will be unfruitful. How will you know when/if you’ve accomplished this? Take some time to assess how you feel…if you feel good, then you’re on the right track. If you feel bad, then you need work on getting yourself to a place where you do feel good.
Once you’ve established that you’re in a place where you truly feel good about yourself, you can start your work on attracting a companion. If there is someone that you’re feeling attracted to that isn’t in your life at the moment, it is because the two of you are not in vibrational harmony. After all the work you’ve done on yourself to increase your own personal vibration, you may be at a higher vibrational level than the person you’re interested in. There are two ways you can bring your desire into manifestation: you can increase or decrease your vibrational level….if you choose to lower your vibration, you may bring this person into your life, however….you will find that whenever you are with this person that the circumstances are not always pleasant and your relationship will not be long-lasting or beneficial to either of you.
The preferred thing to do is to help raise the other person’s vibration. You do this by mentally making a list of that person’s most positive aspects and appreciating them. Find the positive similarities between yourself and this person and appreciate that. If you need to, make the effort to get to know this person so that you can learn more about them. Most of all, if you are sensing resistance from this person, do your best not to push against it. Allow them to feel what they need to and they will sense your allowing on a subconscious level which will bring them closer to you. By bringing someone into your life this way, you will find that your relationship with be much more positive and fulfilling.
If you’ve done all of this and you’re still not with the person that you desire, it is time to acknowledge that perhaps this person is not for you. Continue to feel hopeful for this person and to acknowledge how special the both of you are, but put it on the back burner, so to speak. There may be a more opportune time for this relationship in the future. You may also find that you are now surrounded by others who are more in vibrational harmony with you and those are the people that are important to have in your life. No matter what happens, always look for the positive aspects of all situations and you’ll be happier.